Love Does Not Hurt - the Thought of Being Vulnerable Does

Love Does Not Hurt - the Thought of Being Vulnerable Does

Post-breakup — in any relationship, we find ourselves sitting in the corner of our world, devastated, hurt, and crying our minds out.  The reason for that repeated emotional outburst or, in other words, melt-downs is not per se questioning the love we have/had for the person. But we are evaluating our vulnerability in the presence of that [...]

Online Friends Taking Over In-Person Friendship

Online Friends Taking Over In-Person Friendship

Whether it is just be-friending someone or looking for a date, an online search for a human entity has always been a strange experience to me.  Being an introvert, who is cautious about reality, talking to strangers, and sharing personal experiences with them have always intrigued me. On top of the same, strangers I am [...]

The Unsaid Goodbye

The Unsaid Goodbye

All we needed was that split second, locking into each other through the glass; the eyes that mesmerized me from day one, the smile that took my breath away with every lips bend, those that barged through my heart, alas. We both knew we were done, with our eyes brushing each other briefly through the [...]

The Horizon of Unknown

The Horizon of Unknown

The sky lit the arms surrounding the blue horizon, I feel the urge to rush into the unknown. It is white enlightening the mind, Beneath the fabricated stories of ours, It is soft touched by the love from the soul. I feel into my veins the cold desires, The wild dreams running deep down my [...]

Tips to Change Your Attachment Style to a Secure One

Tips to Change Your Attachment Style to a Secure One

First identify which attachment style do you associate with - precisely and with clarity.Study, journal and observe yourselfPractice to acknowledge your flaws and decide to make the improvements.Accept who you are and embrace alone time.Go on solo dates, observe your emotions in difficult scenarios, and be grounded during detachments.Practice CARRP - consistency, availability, reliability, responsiveness [...]