How to Achieve a Spending – Saving Balance

How to Achieve a Spending – Saving Balance

Credit cards are can be our biggest stress-booster, in terms of maintaining our finances. Achieving financial stability, in our early adult life, requires real dedication as well as a positive mindset. I love shopping; henceforth, the idea of limiting my spending to improve my credit score makes me sad every day. In my recent quest [...]

Online Friends Taking Over In-Person Friendship

Online Friends Taking Over In-Person Friendship

Whether it is just be-friending someone or looking for a date, an online search for a human entity has always been a strange experience to me.  Being an introvert, who is cautious about reality, talking to strangers, and sharing personal experiences with them have always intrigued me. On top of the same, strangers I am [...]

A Few Healthy Benefits of Complaining

A Few Healthy Benefits of Complaining

Complaining is a trait often labeled as unfavorable, whining, and hard to tolerate over time. However, complaining can be a healthy way to distress oneself when performed in the right way. Needless to say, how a person complains and their follow-up actions can speak zillions regarding his or her personality. However, it is not so [...]

3 Ways to Understand Intimacy

3 Ways to Understand Intimacy

Intimacy — as Esther Perel defines it “into-me-see” — is an exciting concept. The concept of intimacy is very personal and like any other possessions, we all define intimacy through our own fantasies and ideas. Some define it as physical touch and sexual pleasure; some describe it as mind match and understanding. For some, it is just the presence [...]

Tips to Change Your Attachment Style to a Secure One

Tips to Change Your Attachment Style to a Secure One

First identify which attachment style do you associate with - precisely and with clarity.Study, journal and observe yourselfPractice to acknowledge your flaws and decide to make the improvements.Accept who you are and embrace alone time.Go on solo dates, observe your emotions in difficult scenarios, and be grounded during detachments.Practice CARRP - consistency, availability, reliability, responsiveness [...]

How to Differentiate Self-Love From Narcissism

How to Differentiate Self-Love From Narcissism

I often see myself in the dilemma of perceiving my actions to be narcissistic. The reality is we are all narcissists at varying levels, depending on circumstances we choose to give, receive, or let go; unapologetically. Choosing your happiness and shelter is essential. As much as we grow up developing relationships with people around us, [...]